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Every time in the network to see more than 20 years old girls message, I will find their “pure ideology” is simply a change in a package, and no substantial change. So far, many people still believe that: as long as there is love, you can overcome all difficulties. Some people are ready for their dreams and not to the point to sacrifice everything. Some people will write the very boldness of vision “as long as their Tanzania, you can achieve any ideal” message, behind often followed numerous encourage reply. Wisdom means that, in the real environment to live honestly. This is a complete awareness that you should have a happy life, and that you are aware of your happiness. Happiness can only be realized when the desire is realized. On the contrary, the arbitrary caused unfortunate example be too numerous to enumerate. Twenty years of age is the cause, marriage, values gradually established the important period, if you can see the value of the reality at an early date, you do not have to become a slave of life after thirty years of age. For women in their 20s, have a healthy body, become a millionaire, to find a decent job, and smart and capable man to marry. These ideas are naturally and reasonable prices. A lot of people think that the value of the above value, they have to abandon such as moral ethics, love and the spirit of the value. But what really matters is that we first have to throw away some unrealistic ideas. As a matter of fact, the practical value and spiritual value of the two not only choose one, but you can get the best of both worlds, because the two are mutual influence, spiritual value only in real value will appear more luster. For living alone, they are more in need of life care than in the moonlight; for the mountain children, they are more popular than the right to live. Wealthy people, not only do not have a day for food and clothing and nerve racking, can also take out money to help others. Become a real and secular people, not means to give up their dreams. If you already have a secular basis, to pursue a dream no longer out of reach, from the side reach the place began looking for the dream, so that fish and bear’s paw, you can have your cake and eat it.
Milan has always been that students show Lynn is past hope. At that time, the college students will read a lot of philosophy books, and show Lin even Nietzsche is who do not know, every day only to read economic news and fashion magazines. She never participated in community activities that most college students are keen on. To study hard and actively participate in community activities of Milan, Xiu Lin is a again, compensation, but the woman, even Lin show every formal and conservative dress has also become a powerful proof of her vulgar. One day, Milan finally unbearable publicly grumble Xiu Lin, said: “every day you think in the end some what you in the head with a shell. The face of Milan’s harsh interrogation, show Lin, a face to face, asked: “what’s wrong with me? What are you thinking?” “I don’t have a particularly great goal, but at least it’s not like you don’t have an idea. As a college student, is not to have a sense of responsibility to the community?” Xiu Lin of impassioned Milan only under a sentence, then turned and said: “I don’t know what you can do for the community, and what contribution? A person who can not support himself, in the end can be responsible for the community? That’s true!” Milan heart even if there are thousands of words, is sufficient to disprove Xiu Lin’s point of view, but in the face of escape debate show Lin back, she can say only one word, “layman!” Ten years later, an accidental opportunity, Milan met Xiu Lin. After graduation has been found not suitable for the work of Milan, temporary boarding in a married sister, the day just go out to the bread shop to buy bread. “Ah, what a coincidence: after graduation, you have what you like?” Xiu Lin looks like ten years ago. Or, she let her face one’s face glowing with health looks more beautiful. Milan because the pressure is too great, not only the skin becomes rough, and was also started to put on weight, very lonely. Always pay attention to the management of Xiu Lin, in her ten years of accumulated work experience, won the favor of a foreign enterprise, just for a job. Milan also vaguely heard someone mention, show Lin is now a lot of money, but also married a very capable accountant, the day is very easy. “How to buy so much bread?” Milan asked. “Well, I started a few years ago and regularly in a pro class to do social services, which are bought for children to eat.” “You? You didn’t care about it before?” “I don’t know that I have a class in the middle of the job,” I just listened to the manager. I have nothing to help, so I have time to buy some food to see them.” From the show Lynn words, do not see a false display of affection she seems to be genuinely and sincerely, in service to others. Is now a tired of life in Milan, but in Xiu Lin who see the University of their own shadow. After graduating from college, Milan has never done social services, because she even solve their own food and clothing have difficulties, the ideal long ago has been more and more far away. Milan Leng in situ show looked at Lin’s back, Xiu Lin at the moment is a holding huge gift bag, ready to go to the delivery of gifts Santa Claus. Today, the money to earn money, you can enjoy eating and drinking show, and once with lofty ideals, trying to transform the world of Milan, actually in ten years has created such a big gap, which makes Milan has been no small blow. In that time, the number of people who are not keen on community activities, and the number of people who have dedicated social consciousness. Not only is Milan, many young people like to the intellectuals themselves, vaguely outlined their ideal society. Now, a girl in her early twenties, it seems almost no such fantasy, but more concerned about reality, but this is only relative to the past.
Sooner or later, people should learn to secular. “Life is hard”, we also know that life is not an easy thing for anyone. However, observation of the thirty year old people. Especially after thirty years old woman, will find that this part of suffering from the “secular” of the cognitive too late. Some women can’t first learn to secular and feel remorse, and some women often sense of theto the let a person become secular world that could not go to sleep at night, and some women in the secular world, but no aware of the existence of the secular. No matter how, a little bit can be determined, if they can be able to realize that the secular is the reality of the truth, then it will not be so confused. Let me put it another way Husband is experience to young turn a blind eye to something, the original has a so important value, such as: will make money, designer clothes, houses, cars, stable life and so on, these twenties disapproval things, now for them, have become so important. They have become the ordinary people who despise. The problem is, no one is willing to admit that he has no that by simply become sophisticated and vulgar. If someone dare evaluation, they fear will grab the collar strike violently. However, they will argue that they only know “reality” and have. But no matter how to say, clearly is the same view, why in the twenties to realize that the “secular”, and in the thirty years after the realization of the “reality”? Twenty years old is to emphasize the “pure” period. The vast majority of women in their twenties, just follow this trend. There is no life plan, and before the age of thirty, and other people become ordinary people, in the world. If as soon as possible to understand the significance of secular, and money befriend, may be in after the age of thirty or forty or fifty years old to live gracefully. This is not to say that only become secular, to elegant life, but that, if we can abandon the cleanliness of money and real, not as in years old to go after, but also for the money and had exhausted life. I would occasionally see over the age of 40, but still live a wonderful woman. Whether they are aware of this, they must have been out of the ordinary people’s ideas, and preferred the secular”.
Life is a continuation of choice. A number of choices are combined to form the framework of life, and these choices determine the psychological tendency and character of people. Our fate, or “eight”, another name is the psychological tendency of. Talented woman should understand the fork in the road of life, you should make a choice. However, they tend to make a very difficult decision when they face a choice. Although they will always be “in the case of a choice” to defend themselves, but those who go against the original intention of the choice, and ultimately blame their own psychological factors, it is their own psychological factors that make them live a mature, the will of a collapse. Of course, life is not always the best. I also made it clear that people who don’t want to be married to a Christian family or professional soldiers, police. But I ended up breaking my own rule, marrying an Air Force captain, and he was the son of the priest. When a woman makes the choice to be the closest to her life, she will have fewer regrets than others, so that you can live a good life. Although it is impossible to determine whether such a woman is all different, but at least it can be determined that they are smart woman. After a long observation, I find that they have some common ground. Change their psychological tendency is not a short time to be able to do, especially after thirty years of age, has been stable down the psychological tendency, it is more difficult to change. Twenty year old female friends, taking advantage of your values and psychological tendencies are not fixed, while you have a lot of choice, you should start to adjust their attitude towards life. To write this book is to help the more than 20 years of female friends with mature psychology, make them become richer, happier, more beautiful choice.