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Sooner or later, people should learn to secular. “Life is hard”, we also know that life is not an easy thing for anyone. However, observation of the thirty year old people. Especially after thirty years old woman, will find that this part of suffering from the “secular” of the cognitive too late. Some women can’t first learn to secular and feel remorse, and some women often sense of theto the let a person become secular world that could not go to sleep at night, and some women in the secular world, but no aware of the existence of the secular. No matter how, a little bit can be determined, if they can be able to realize that the secular is the reality of the truth, then it will not be so confused. Let me put it another way Husband is experience to young turn a blind eye to something, the original has a so important value, such as: will make money, designer clothes, houses, cars, stable life and so on, these twenties disapproval things, now for them, have become so important. They have become the ordinary people who despise. The problem is, no one is willing to admit that he has no that by simply become sophisticated and vulgar. If someone dare evaluation, they fear will grab the collar strike violently. However, they will argue that they only know “reality” and have. But no matter how to say, clearly is the same view, why in the twenties to realize that the “secular”, and in the thirty years after the realization of the “reality”? Twenty years old is to emphasize the “pure” period. The vast majority of women in their twenties, just follow this trend. There is no life plan, and before the age of thirty, and other people become ordinary people, in the world. If as soon as possible to understand the significance of secular, and money befriend, may be in after the age of thirty or forty or fifty years old to live gracefully. This is not to say that only become secular, to elegant life, but that, if we can abandon the cleanliness of money and real, not as in years old to go after, but also for the money and had exhausted life. I would occasionally see over the age of 40, but still live a wonderful woman. Whether they are aware of this, they must have been out of the ordinary people’s ideas, and preferred the secular”.
A turn over to open the book, the author Nan Renshu Pitou will speak: “twenties when didn’t touch the good men, in their thirties is difficult to marriage and a good man; in their thirties when began to accumulate wealth, in their thirties is even 15 mando to save in the hand… Who said 20 years old can’t live secular?” The witty for me, simply Qiu wake-up call like in scold me like, suddenly, feel themselves may not be qualified to write a preface, because I am the twenties live is “an ideal and romantic”. I began to think about what I was doing when I was twenty years old. In school, I was studying for a large department, Department of business administration and information studies, obtaining a master’s degree; in business, I from normal graduated as a primary school teacher, switch to when a reporter and anchor, from a newspaper has been poaching to the TV station; in love, many men in pursuit, but were never meant to be, never want to marry a rich man, but has been looking for a man of feeling. When a person is very good, family and wealthy men in pursuit of me, but I was hesitant, newspaper several sister level colleagues told me: “you stupid!! you now twenty years old and too young and naive, to thirty years old, you have the pressure of life, you become a reality, you will know this man have much good, when the time comes, don’t regret ah!” I didn’t listen to their words, because I still believe that the gender harmony, the feeling is very important. Even now, I feel that the feelings of things should be very difficult so completely realistic reason. And, I have questioned their tone – is it true that I really do? However, because I’m not secular, will let me become a hardworking and down-to-earth “Ashin anchor in the press”, and not the so-called “married into the giants” slightest? Because I am not secular, it will make me unhappy? There is No. Perhaps, life is not the so-called “happiness”, because I still need to continue to work on this basic question, but I love the work of the continuous pursuit of self realization, this whole process is to let me feel satisfied and happy, although occasionally some setbacks. “In order to be happy, we should learn to be secular and realistic,” the author said.” I think, it depends on your definition of happiness is what. My classmates, some people think that with the children together, watching the children one day grow up, that is the happiest bereaved thing, so she choose to leave the workplace, concentrate on at home with the kids, every day, in the interaction with the children close, she won happiness. In addition to a classmate, she felt should make a lot of line, and to live independently to be happy. So, she is now driving cars, lived in the mansion, not married, but have a love with aluminum. She also feel very happy, but also often tell me, how to get women to get the body of happiness My classmates are from Tainan, most of them choose their own want to live a happy life and then try to go to the reality, but not a determined to marry a cable, it seems that they seem to have a light point to view their own life. Instead I know some women in the news office and the Taipei City, most of them will set to make their own living conditions better, the goal of life. Perhaps, different from the workplace, different people have different values, but I can not prove that this is the era of social differences, or, it is only a coincidence of the times, but through each different era, people can get the inspiration is that the personality determines everything “